Trust...

How honest can a person be? Everyone has a secret to hide, especially to their close ones. Mistrust causes misunderstanding and unnecessary conflicts. Flipping through the effective communication textbook, I learn about the various means of communications and how to identify and solve problems. Things such as misconceptions, perceptions, verbal and non-verbal communications etc. Well, not that I don't know anything abt these, but I've gained more knowledge by reading the textbook (erm... actually I dun have a choice cause the test is tmr). Being tactful in speeches and showing the right body language is essential, but I believe that being truthful to one another is even more important. Imagine how a person will feel upon knowing that he/she is cheated, especially by the ones most trusted. This kind of conflict is probably the hardest to resolve. I've always thought that I'm very sharp and sensitive to ppl's feelings, being able to identify and spot the lies between the lines and understand how they are feeling. Reading through the book simply validate and reinstate my point. There are some points which I'm not too sure though, made me questioned my judgement and perceptions. Oh well, I hope I'm right...

Never thought we'd be here, when my love for you was blind. But I couldn't make you see it, couldn't make you see it, that I loved you more than you'll ever know... (quoted from the song Blind by Lifehouse)